A-GENDER FIGHTING

HI GUYS!!!

What i have to talk about today is something i've been keeping in my heart to talk about when im fully ready to talk about it cos it's an issue that really gets me mad. BUT as we're all human so we get up to dumbness once in a while, something happened today and i had to look around me to remind myself that we're GROWN UPS!!

I'm not going to judge because 1) Judge not lest ye be judgeD and 2) i don't know the enitre full story. BUt a physical fight ALMOST occured because of something someone said and then someone told someone else and there's a lot of "he said" and "she said"

I always tell my friends, if you're gonna fight, HAVE A REAL REASON TO FIGHT i.e. you broke into my house last night and attempted to steal my favourite trainers. Don't fight because you HEARD something, don't fight because a girl is trying to steal your man or your a guy is moving to your girl..don't even get me started on if you think your man likes your FRIEND. It annoys me when i have to separate fights and then i hear "i thought you were my friend" or "you're supposed to be my friend" well you shoulda smelt something fishy in that person in the first place before you called them "friend" or whatever happens YOU AND YOUR FRIEND SHOULD NOT BE FIGHTING COS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. It is the most immature reason for friends to fight.

Hell fire would get cold the day i have a fight with my friend BECAUSE OF A GUY!!!it aint gonna happen because i'm not stupid. At the end of the day, you're gonna feel dumb (and probably bruised) and the boy or girl would be thinking "i'm hot, they had a fight cos of me". I hear you about "it's not even that, it's the principle" SHURRUP!!!

What principle? You're just as bad as the person you're fighting especially if your reason is that foolish. Sorry, if i sounding a bit harsh and not "nurturing" as usual but this nonsense HAS GOT TO STOP especially if you're over 16. Once you're 16, you have no excuses whatsoever not to use your brain and respect yourself and walk away from that kind of surroundings.

Yes, if your man cheats on you with some non entity, FINE, his loss. Or if you're a guy, and your girl cheated, HER LOSS. There is no need to go and start fighting for something that's MOST PROBABLY NOT GOING TO LAST AFTER IT'S HAPPENED anyway.It's stupidness. GROW UP.

I think by now, you know how seriously i take this issue because of my tone, if you don't like it, close the window BUT IT HAS TO BE SAID. GROW UP!!!

Anyway guys

till next time

keep up on my blog and BE BLESSED!!!

xxx