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Thursday, 5 March 2009

The Sky Is Your Esteem






HI GUYS!!!
I have a LOVELY subject to talk about today LOL

SELF ESTEEM....self worth, how you value yourself, how much love you have for YOU.

In this day and age, the amount of self appreciation and self love that people have for their self has REDUCED a great deal. Now we have people like Beyoncé (don't get me wrong- i appreciate her talent LOL), Kate Moss and other "perfect"celebrities, dictating to us about what we should look like and how we should live our lives. Oh and guys, im not leaving you lot out, as much as i'm with you on the "no homo" thing, there are male celebrities that flaunt their abs in your faces and you look at yourself and think you're not good enough.

Now that was a bit about physicalities- now let's talk inside. self Esteem AFFECTS behaviour. so when we see young girls in year 9, 10 or 11 going to "link" boys and we think they're sluts...they're not. They feel the need confirmation through sexual needs to tell them that they are good enough- IT'S NOT RIGHT (it helps if you know someone like that to talk to them about it cos...that isn't important at that age). AND THIS IS NOT JUST FOR years 9, 10 and 11. I'm talking to people who go to college and uni. The "mature" ones within us who deep inside- they don't like their self. They feel no love for the being that they are-they do things that are beyond reason, i'm trying to reach out to you to tell you that the way you see yourself is IMPORTANT because you need to appreciate the way God has made you. NOBODY is perfect. There are things about you that other people wish they could feature on themselves but they can't- so appreciate that about yourself. Look in the mirror everyday when you wake up and getting ready for school, college, uni or even work and tell yourself that you're beautiful, tell yourself that your worth anything good that comes your way, tell yourself AINT NO OTHER cos yes, there is noone else in the world like you so YOU HAVE TO APPRECIATE THE ONE AND ONLY YOU. Look in the mirror and big yourself up, picture yourself doing things no one else has the ability to do

SELF LOVE IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT

If you don't love yourself, noone else will love you. So the next time someone tells you they love you, ask yourself 1st if you love yourself- if you don't slap them for lying to you LOL- im joking.

but yer, what i'm trying to say is..LEARN TO LOVE YOUR SELF. Get your Self Esteem to become in level with the sky because really, the more self confidence you are, the further you're going to get in life.


TILL NEXT TIME, guys


LOL


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